Prologue I was inspired to explore the missing element in my life during February of 2016. This is the month of love. The month when we receive special gifts that symbolize our love for one another. Yet, something was not right about my life when it came to love, but I just couldn’t quite put my finger on it! I was succeeding in my academics and on my job. I had a friend that cared about me and a family who loved me. I thought my life was in order finally for a change, but, like many young women in American, I was seeking love. I struggled to salvage a collapsing relationship with a man that was supposed to perfect my life.